I discovered a very interesting part of men and decided to share especially with ladies which can help build our homes and relationships. It will be of great value to men too,since balance is needed! Until we understand ourselves better,marriages might not last!
Women process thoughts EXTERNALLY,when a woman is thinking about something, SHE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT IT;she wants to communicate. They might not necessarily want you to fix it,they just want to talk about it,find encouragement or something!
Men process thoughts INTERNALLY! Now,the more something bothers them, THE LESS THEY SAY ABOUT IT! When a man is really frustrated,worried and upset- HE SAYS NOTHING!
What women do externally,they do internally! They go into the "cave"(heart) to PROCESS ISSUES and you think they don't care because they don't verbalize!
Let me shock you-he cares as much as you do about it, he doesn't just communicate like you do!
When you told him about the problem and he kept playing with the remote control, changing from channel to channel and said nothing about it, he was already in his "thought room". Don't be shocked if he return days later to tell you about his take on the matter!
The irony is that; you the woman that talked about that problem had already forgotten about it!
Don't be mad when he doesn't talk when you expect him to! Take it easy! He isn't just as relationship oriented as you are! Strike a balance
Hmmmmm! Men and women-wonderful creation of God!
Restful weekend ahead!
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