How to keep yourself before marriage

Don't let the devil lie to you that sex makes a relationship sweeter!

Nope! Especially for ladies, it makes you lose your thinking cap,become emotionally attached and in bondage!(you just can't leave even when you know he is done with you)

Men don't get emotionally attached because they had sex with a woman else some should be attached to prostitutes by now!

For the fact that everybody is doing it doesn't make it right

The sweetest and most sensible relationship is that devoid of sex!
Why?

You are able to develop genuine intimacy through friendship and communication.

Your sense of reasoning isn't biased! You are able to think well/straight and draw genuine conclusions without any prejudice!

Try it and you will never regret it!

Save sex for marriage

How To Marry As A Virgin

Don't get it twisted,you can be good in bed and not be good as a wife! They are two different things!

That you are good in bed isn't a ticket to marriage! Aunty, there is more to marriage than just trying to satisfy him in bed!

Stop acting cheap! Close your legs! You will be shocked that after doing all the "taekwondo" styles, he still went ahead to marry a lady who has decided to keep herself.

Common sense ain't common afterall! Zip up gurl! Learn to say NO and mean it!

Blessed day!

How To Overcome Challenges

No man here on earth is devoid of challenges!

Alcohol ain't the solution! Have you ever wondered-when you drink,you seem to forget about all the challenges,but once your eyes are cleared,it doesn't still take the problem away!

Rather than get enmeshed in drinking alcohol,show your challenges how big your God is! He is bigger than anything!

Most times,challenges are a stepping stone to your greatness!

Hold on,help is on the way!

What You Need To Know About Trangender

This transgender palava ‪#‎smh‬# How can a man just feel God made a mistake making him a man and therefore decides to "transform" to a woman?

I sometimes wonder! Thank God He is Sovereign and didn't expose to us how to get "breath of life", a lot of people would have made a mess of it!

Hmmmm! The thought of using the wisdom the creator gave to go against the creator! Clear case of stabbing in the back.

If you like as a man try change to a woman,fix imaginary boobs,do facial surgery,dress like a woman-it doesn't still give you the mind of a woman or make you think like a woman neither does it give you a womb!

Hey woman,biceps won't make you think or act like a man! Remove the womb-hian-it still doesn't make you a man! Mtchhhheeew!

Human beings; never ever contented! God, how are you coping in heaven watching us do things that bring displeasure to you? You are indeed God!

I am so proud to be who God has made me to be! I accept my flaws and weaknesses working on it to become better! I don't want to be someone else! I accept ME,I love ME,I enjoy ME!

How To Know A True Virgin

You claim to be a virgin just because your physical hymen has not been broken,yet every other thing associated with it has been carried out! You romance,masturbate etc! How can the tongue of a lady on a manhood define it?

Your lips are both locked up in a hot kiss and saliva mixed together touching every contour of your body;hence drawing the map of Africa,he has explored a bit of your private part just exercising care so as not to break the hymen,already in cloud 6... hmmmm

Yet you see someone who isn't a virgin but gone back to God, kept herself pure and you are so fast to look down on them or make them feel they don't matter to God!

Who is deceiving who?

Sweetheart,Don't just keep that hymen and defile every other part of your body! Protect ALL GATES!

Don't get me wrong,am not saying it's wrong to be a virgin,neither am I encouraging you to defile your body! But all am saying is ADD PURITY TO THAT VIRGINITY!

If you are no longer a virgin,but now with God-don't let the devil whisper 'sweet nonsense into your ears". God loves you as much as he loves a virgin who is pure! He is a God of a second chance!

Bottom line: Far above virginity, PURITY IS KEY!

Marriage Counselling

Please respect the institution of marriage! Respect your wife/hubby! Don't go from one social media to another flirting around.

Marriage counselling is very in important before any marriage. I deeply respect men who honor their wives,not because they ain't human or don't get attracted to other ladies, but they CHOOSE to stick to their homes!

Having the fear of God is paramount in anyone's life! Why did you marry her when you know you will still stick your nose out looking for what is not lost?

Please pray well and think through before you settle with her! She won't be perfect,but make sure she is someone that you are satisfied with and makes you happy,not someone you will have to run out of the house a week after wedding! Yes,all days might not be lovely but  it's for better for worse!

I don't like it when I hear people say-men can't be faithful! They can! Some are and if some can be-others can too!
Yes I know it's not easy, you need to seek marriage counselling before saying i do. God has to engrave you but he has see that you have PURPOSED IN YOUR HEART NOT TO DEFILE YOURSELF ( Dan 1 vs 8) and work towards it!

Men of valor, please can we get to do things right even if we have missed it before?
A man who has alternative(s) may never achieve excellence!

Make your home count! God bless our men!

How To Make A Good Wife

Sometimes I think our parents don't help their kids with the way they are being brought up! How can you have children that housemaid does virtually everything for them?

Especially the girls,they can't even wash their underwears or make Eba not to talk of making stew! Hian! Are you pampering her or destroying her life?

Mothers,how do you want her to cope when she is married?

The day you as a woman give your duty(of cooking and taking care of your husband) no matter how busy you are to your housemaid,you have shot yourself in the leg!

Election Tension

The atmosphere is tensed! A lot of sporadic shootings,people running helter skelter just because of election. Who pays for it with their lives- the masses!

I look forward to a time in Nigeria-where election will be violent free and peaceful!

I just wish the president can declare Friday and Monday as public holiday,not because am lazy but probably for security reasons!

I don't know if you feel it,but really the atmosphere is sssooo TENSED! Irrespective of this,let the will of God alone be done!

We will not lose our lives in Jesus Name-Amen!

Why Will I Accept The Proposal

Because you think you are getting older and the guy hasn't proposed yet,you packed your things and decided start residing with him!
My dear,you have missed it! I thought growing old equals more wisdom, but that's just the highest level of stupidity at display!
How can you move in with a man who has not married you and still expect him to propose? Proposal my foot!
You have just succeeded in turning yourself to a nonentity and slammed the door to marriage! How-you may ask?
He find someone who will wash his clothes,iron them,cook your meals, attend to his sexual needs anytime,then tell me-why would he want to propose again?
He is getting the services for free without no stress, therefore there is no need for proposal or how many of you will rather purchase what you are getting for free?
My dear,wise up! You better save yourself the little dignity remaining! Pack your things and return to your father's house!
No responsible lady packs her things to reside with a man no matter how much you love him,when he has not properly asked and your parents given your hand out to him in marriage.
Am I too harsh?
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Early Marriage

It's good to get married early,but don't get desperate so much so that you begin to bend godly standards and want a man at all cost!
I know waiting isn't easy, but when God is involved, it usually ends well.
Don't go about chasing guys or making yourself cheap and available! Men enjoy the chase!
Love God, pray, live your life,develop yourself and be responsible!
Love will surely find you soon!